Future Wonders or Wonder Forward

Here’s one of my current wonders about my future.

I wonder about…retirement. I have options. Will I continue to live in Connecticut? I could move South. I could be a snowbird and travel between here and there. Should I do it now or wait? I don’t mind working here. I have friends and I have access to so many resources. I am looking forward to doing what I want to do. I could sleep late and stay up late. I could join a health club and exercise there. The possibilities are endless. I could write more. I could make new friends. What will my life be like then? I wonder….

Can I plan to wonder? Probably, why not? Maybe instead of, or in addition to, meditation time, I’ll create wonder time. Just turn my mind lose and see what happens. I’ll report back when something WONDER-FUL happens as a result!

To wonder productively, remember to keep an open mind. Don’t jump to conclusions. Steer clear of negative thoughts, because then you’re worrying.

Wonder-up some stuff of your own. Of course there’s a process!

The process is called Wouldn’t It Be Nice If:

(get the pen or pencil and paper or journal page)

Write your topic that you want to wonder about at the top.
Under that write “Wouldn’t it be nice if:”

Write down all the best things that could possibly happen in relation to this topic. No matter how outrageous they may be. If fact the wilder they are, the better because you don’t want to limit yourself or the Universe here.

Wonder freely…

Record your Wondering in a Creative Journal:

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Can you entertain yourself?

Some games are fun to play by yourself. Maybe you can devise a way to do the following games in a group or with another person, but when no one else is available, you can play by yourself.

1. Find coins. Set your intention on finding pennies.
When this becomes so obviously easy that you are seeing them everywhere, move up to nickels, then dimes and quarters.
These you will find on the ground.
The next step is to find dollar bills. You may find some on the ground also, but now you want to set your intention higher and find them in other places ($’s off coupons, in birthday cards, in pants pockets, etc).
The next step is to set a desired amount to manifest.
Start with $10, and when this is easy, move up to $25, then in $25 increments.
Soon you will be manifesting $100’s, and it won’t be difficult at all.

2. This game I made up after hearing the song I’m already there by Lonestar:

Im already there
Take a look around
Im the sunshine in your hair
Im the shadow on the ground
Im the whisper in the wind
Im your imaginary friend
And I know Im in your prayers
Oh Im already there

Here’s the gist of the game: Get out your dream, your desire, your passion, your object of creation – whatever you want to call it.
Dust it off and imagine IT as the love of your life that you are singing to. Now imagine IT’S already here. Take a look around, what do I see?
Describe it a little. What do you see in your imagination when you picture this thing already in your reality? How do you feel?

I feel like I’m so close to IT that it’s my sunshine, my shadow, my whisper on the wind, my friend, the prayer on my lips. IT and I are that close. IT’S already here and I’m already there with IT!

How good does that feel?

3. The Board Room game. I can’t take credit for inventing this one, but I don’t remember where I found it either.
This is all done in your vivid imagination.
Create a board room with a table and chairs.
Invite in some representatives.
These should be people that you feel will have something informative to say to you about your current creation. They can be people who are alive today, or people from history.
Consciously invite each one into the Board Room and watch them take their places.
Explain why you invited each one in particular.
Explain what you would like their advice on and why.
Imagine their responses.
Listen closely. Take some notes. These pieces of advice will be very valuable to you later on. Close the meeting by thanking each one and watch them exit.
Congratulate yourself for forming the perfect team to address your topic.
Now you can leave the Board Room also.

You have in your possession some wisdom from each one of these people that you can use in relation to your life and your current reality.
This is AWESOME! Where else would you get advice from the likes of Nelson Mandela, Donald Trump or Mark Twain?

Law of Attraction Games

Maybe you call them processes. These games will have lasting consequences if you choose that outcome. The lasting affects will be a lift in the way you feel (your vibe) and a releasing of resistance.

Here’s a thought: You could become addicted to these game and people will congratulate you. Why? Because the good vibes they generate for you will reach out and influence others. You just can’t feel good inside without it showing outside.

Play more. Have fun. Let it show.

If you have been following Law of Attraction for a while, I know you know about the money game where you give yourself an ever increasing imaginary amount of money every day and then you have to spend it. It’s fun and it works. I encourage you to play it often.

There are many more games like that. All of them are fun and all of them will help you release resistance and clear the path for focusing positive energy on what you want. Let’s look at some others.

Do you play well with others?

Some things are much more fun when you do them with other people who understand where you’re coming from. You’ll get a big boost to your vibe when you see and hear the participation of others. Here are 3 games you can play with others:

*Name 3 good things in your life right now. Set the WOW factor really high by using expansive words.

*Toasting. What’s happening in your life worthy of a toast? Be as eloquent as you can. Think Academy Awards Introductions, or imitate those silly Celebrity Roasts if it suits you. This doesn’t have to be done with alcohol! Make fancy drinks with fruit juice, or hot beverages with tea or cocoa.

*Chutes and ladders (LoA style). Use the actual board game. This kiddie’s game lends itself well to a Law of Attraction element. When you land on a chute, you must identify an uplifting positive thought that will get you ready to climb again. When you land on a ladder, you must state some appreciative thoughts that allowed you to rise up the ladder.

Coming next – Game you can play alone.

Don't Forget to Wonder

It’s my personal opinion that time spent just sifting through possibilities is very productive. Here’s why:

Wonder is the opposite of worry.
What’s really going on in there when my mind is just drifting with no real purpose? I’m sure there are studies about brain wave activity that would tell me if I looked for them. To me it feels light and free-floating. No pressure, no stress, definitely not worrying.

Wonder is an opportunity for insight.
When I'm drifting like that, I’ve had times when a sudden thought will just zing in there like an arrow out of the blue. I didn’t think it on purpose, but there it is right in front of me - A NEW THOUGHT – wow!

The last time it happened, the thought was…I can be pre-creative.
Here’s what I mean by that: These 2 things I already know:
1. I create my own reality.
2. Time is a relative construct (I’m not going into detail on this thought now. If it’s unfamiliar to you, please Google it.)

So, it’s possible for me to pre-create solutions for myself BEFORE I need them. Like a library book on a shelf. The solution can be already there before the problem arises. I’m working with this now, but I’ve already had a couple of neat experiences. I’ll write about those later.
Being "pre-creative" is probably not a new thought, but it’s new to me and I’m having fun with it.

Wonder will prompt an answer to my questions about almost anything.
This is something else I’ve experienced. My mind is just idling along, and I think of some question, like …why is such & such happening? I’ll usually get an answer. Not life-changing, but it’s interesting enough to please me.

Here’s an example of that. A few weeks ago, the members of my group started to talk about creating a trip to Hawaii that would include all of us. Sounds like fun. The next day I started seeing Hawaiian things like clothes, recipes, magazine articles. Then that was it. Hawaii stopped showing up for me.

When I wondered why, I got the answer. Here is is: The extent to which I was really invested in the idea of taking this trip was already exhausted.

I have to agree. It was a fun idea, but I wasn't committed to it.

There you go – kind of an inconsequential question, but Wonder produced an honorable answer.

Support Others

Applaud other people's work!

As you build LoA support for youself, you will encounter many opportunities to support others. Building synergistic relationships is a great way for all of us to grow together.
While creating my own LoA lifestyle, I have met many other creative individuals who are expressing their unique talents.
This is Avarelle/Helen. She's an amazing writer.

Here is her link: http://www.greatgodyin.co.uk/Welcome_files/shapeimage_1.png

This article can also be read at
http://www.law-of-attraction-lifestyles.com/BuildLoASupport.html

Feel better Fast!

I got this from the Powerful Intentions Forum, and I thought I would share Gellan Lee's writing here:

FEEL GOOD About Yourself!
(it’s one ingredient toward reaching your goals)

Abraham often says, “Learn to FEEL BETTER”
By Gillan Lee on October 14, 2010 at 12:52am in Powerful Intentions Main Forum

Step 1 :
List five words to describe yourself. The trick - do not describe any physical features and use any words other than "nice"! Some creative words to choose from could be hardworking, loving, easy going or unique. Just list anything that makes you feel good.

Step 2 :
Praise people for what they can do, not just how they look. Compliment a friend, a family member, a spouse or anyone today on something other than his/her appearance. ( it's one of the way to say and feel thankful about anything.)

Step 3 :
Try to ask an older sister, mom, cousin, aunt or your grandma how she felt about her appearance when she was about your age. What does she know now that she wishes she'd know then? Compare what she said with your past-experiences. ( this is the part where you learn a thing or two about feeling good. Every process has steps that needs to be taken yea?)

Step 4 :
Tell your family and friends about your accomplishments. When you accomplish something you're really proud of - whether it's passing a tough test or finishing a winning soccer season -that'swhen you're at your most beautiful. Give yourself a pat on the back! Call a grandparent or e-mail a favorite aunt to share the news. Celebrate with family and friends. ( when you tell, you're not bragging but sharing the joy. This is the part where all good vibes is produced. Grab it.)

Step 5:
Limit your face time. It's OK to give yourself a once-over in the mirror before you head out in the morning.
 Face washed?
 Fly zipped?
 Hair not standing straight up (unless you like it that way)?
Step 6 :
Don't obsess about your appearance. It's fine to want to see what's changing and to daydream about who you're becoming. But spending too much time in front of the mirror - or peeking at your reflection in every mirror you pass - is not worth it. You've got better things to do!

Step 7 :
. When your friend says,"You look great," don't brush her off with "I think these pants make me goofy." Just say "Thanks," and let the words sink in. ( The art of feeling thankful.)

Step 8 :
Celebrate taking care of yourself. Take time today to pamper your skin with great-smelling soap to lotion. Clean and cut your nails. (Focus on YOU.)

Step 9 :
Give your body respect, and you'll get respect from the rest of the world, too. Even if you wake up feeling lousy - or just lazy - wash your face, comb your hair, brush your teeth, and get dressed in your favorite jeans and t-shirt. ( Vital to feel as if you're on top of the world every morning.)

Step 10 :
List three things you like about your looks. When you're having a bad day, focus on what you like about yourself (e.g. I have pretty hazel eyes with dark eyelashes, a gorgeous smile, shiny hair, etc.). (When you shift your mind from those bad things to good things, instantly you'll be smiling)

Step 11 :
Don't waste your time comparing yourself to others. There's no one out there just like you, who was grown up with your experiences and has your talents. Also remember to listen to your body when you play sports. Don't push yourself past your body's limits, even if you're told to toughen up. Your instincts will tell you when to stop. (Others don't decide where you will be, it is YOU.)

Step 12 :
Make meals something special. Even if you're only having cereal with your siblings, create traditions that will make the moment memorable. Set the table. Take turns sharing funny dreams from the night before. At dinner, dim the lights and have your parents light a candle for the table. Enjoy giving yourself the fuel you need and sharing your ideas and feelings with people eating with you.

Step 13 :
Try to change the subject if your friends start talking about their weight or diet. Show them that there are more interesting things to talk about, such as how their soccer team is doing and how old their little golden retriever pup is this month. ( You should change the vibes surrounding you. Make it positive.)

Step 14 :
Know that it's OK not to feel perky or peppy all the time. Sometimes you just have to live with the bad feelings and just know they'll pass. If you feel seriously sad, be sure to talk to an adult who cares about you. Also, when you're in a bad mood, your body knows it. Think about which part of your body gets out of whack when you're crabby or upset. Do you get a stomach ache when you're nervous about a test? Do you get a headache when you feel anxious? If you recognize your body's signals, you may be able to figure out what's bothering you and make yourself feel better.

Step 15 :
Cheer yourself up when needed. If it's daytime, open up the window and let in some fresh air and sunlight. If it's nighttime, put on some clean pajamas and curl up with a favorite book, movie, or CD. Feeling stressed? Take a warm bath or shower. Imagine the water washing away your worries. Also try to create your own peace rituals. When you're angry or stressed out, take three long, slow, deep breaths. Write in your journal. Turn on some of your favorite music. Find ways to calm your spirit, and return to those practices whenever you feel anxious.

Step 16 :
Start a dream list. Find a pretty notebook and write down places you'd like to visit, experiences you'd like to have, people you'd like to meet, and skills you'd like to learn. A dream list is a great start to creating a life filled with fun, adventure, and interesting experiences. Put a box next to each item on your list so you can check it off when it happens. (Vision Board everyone?)

Step 17 :
List all the things you're good at, whether it's math or being funny. If you feel down about yourself, look at the list you've made, and remember - you rock! (Hehehehe.)

Step 18 :
Wear clothes that make you feel good. You know which shirt makes you feel self-conscious and which pants make you squirm. Talk to your mom about why you don't feel good in those clothes and ask if you can give them to charity. Wear your favorite color. If you feel great in it, your confidence will show! If someone teases you about the clothes you wear, shrug it off and say, "Oh well, at least I like them!" Remember: People aren't looking at you or talking about you nearly as much as you think they are. Also try a new `do. Brush your hair, braid it, twist it, and tie it. Experiment! You can express yourself through your appearance and no one way is right. They're allyou.

Step 19 :
Develop your own style. Experiment with clothing to see what makes you feel the best. Some days you might feel girly and fancy - other days you won't! That's OK. This week, visit a clothing store with a friend and pick out five new outfits in colors and styles you'd never consider wearing. Then have fun trying them on! Don't be surprised if something you thought would look awful actually looks good on you. Have a laugh at the ones you don't like.

Step 20 :
Don't care about what other people think. Have you been hurt by words? Remember this: People who insult others usually do it to make themselves be powerful. Know what that means? They're probably insecure. They are the ones who lack confidence, so try not to bend into the pressure to return their jabs with an insult.

Step 21 :
Learn something new. Read a good article about something going on in the world. You will feel like you are knowledgeable about some current events, and it will give you a sense of self-importance. (Confidence baby.)

Step 22 :
Look for the beauty in others and embrace it. Finding beauty in those around you gives YOU a more beautiful spirit.

Step 23 :
Just go for it, take everything that you hate, love, and ignore about yourself, and just love it all. Difficult as it may be just go for it, second guessing is worse than being let down... get out and find out for yourself. Rejection is the first stage to success reiterated in my own words.

Step 24 :
Believe in yourself. Though it may sound cheesy, it actually does make you more confident. Believe that you can accomplish whatever task is at hand. When you finish, you'll feel good because you knew you could do it. So don't give up and try your best.

Useful button

I found a very useful way of adding content from a Click! button. I can reuse the same graphic and it just makes life a little easier. Here's and example:

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I used it to send people to the "Interviews Page" and I'm going to use it now to send people to a very interesting blog entry that will hang nicely with "Don't Shoot Yourself in the Foot"

http://www.law-of-attraction-lifestyles.com/allowance.html

Very useful little item!